How is asking that question racist? Has it really gotten to the point that we can't even have an innocuous conversation about playing in the orchestra? Are we actually that afraid of offending somebody? Orchestra? If that's where we are today, that's just sad.I thought about asking him if he was in orchestra, because my son is in orchestra and 90% of the orchestra students are Asian (this family is Asian). I didn't ask, because I realized that the question would be racist.
This isn't directed at you Been, just a generic thought...