Please provide an explicit example of my inability to recognize your nuance. Here’s what I think you mean, please tell me if I’m wrong, that’s not at all what you mean, and explain why it’s not what you’re talking about. Here’s what I think you are referring to as your nuance:
I start a thread about Trump and something he did as president, lets call it “X,” with which I am in bitter disagreement and hold nothing back in my critique, really give him what for.
You, as a Trump fanatic who has reached peak Pavlovian response/reaction whenever someone says something negative about the man, spring into action in full armor ready for battle.
But rather than show reasonable cause for why Trump did “X,” rather than explain exactly why it was the proper thing for him to do, rather than justify it on its merits, you introduce what you consider to be “nuance,” for instance something along the line of “check out Obama’s EO’s,” which by all appearances have nothing to do with Trump or the thing he did that the thread is about.
The point is you’re not being nuanced, your trying to deflect away from the topic, or at the very least spread the negativity, the criticism over a wider range, thus reducing the impact of the criticism being lodged against the man in whom you have invested enormous emotional energy.
And when I dismiss your deflection (that you consider to be complex nuanced thinking) or tell you to start your own thread about “Obama’s EO’s” because it is not relevant to the purpose of the thread, rather than start your own thread you get offended that I’m too dense to recognize that you’re introducing very important nuance to the conversation that I’m stupidly not taking into account.
Does that sound right?