The difference is the people in Gaza are being oppressed by two entities, both Hamas and Israel, and no matter how you want to spin it Israel has been worse by far. The people in Gaza have tisen up against their greatest oppressor many tome, both biolently and nonviolently and have been chewed into pieces by the tiger (as
@Tulsaaggieson puts it).
As has been pointed out many many times you are misreading most of those polls, the support is overwhelmingly for the “civil affairs” side of Hamas, not necessarily the “terrorist” wing. And the supporters of the terrorists view Israel as far more terrorizing while they see Hamas as the only viable resistance against Israel oppression.
Who are the Iranians going to capture and make hostages, their own people who the regime has made clear it doesn’t care what happens to them?
The notion Gazans indoctrinate their children with hate is specious at best. Children watch Israel murder their families in front of them. They don’t need indoctrination. It has been shown thst most Hamas fighters are orphans whose families have been wiped out or disappeared by the IDF. Hate fir tgem has been baked in by Uncle Bibi.
I give you your fifth contention … until the US decides to “defend” Uncle Bibi by going to war.