This is why the argument about how many Muslims are bad radicals and whether Islam is uniquely terrorist is so pointless. The conclusion that all we can do is kill Muslims is the real point and arguing over the IRA and polls from Bangladesh and Indonesia is just burying the lede.
I don't totally agree with this statement, namely the part about looking at polls. Before we can address the issue as a society we need to have a basic understanding of the society that is at war with us. This also includes an understanding of the theology and a willingness to face facts no matter how politically incorrect. Lastly, any solution needs to be looked at from the view of minimizing the loss of life. I have no idea if it would be effective but I would like to see a few things.
1. Very strict immigration control from the US to prevent illegal immigration.
2. Restrict the acceptance of refugees from Muslim nations. It may seem harsh but allowing the entrance of thousands of military aged males of the same ideology at war with the US does not pass the common sense test.
3. Revamp our foreign policy, quit the bombing, pull our troops out of these countries.
4. Streamline the legal immigration processes and increase worker visas.
5. Remove embargos, trade restrictions, etc.
Who knows, that all could be a complete disaster but I'm willing to have the conversation. I think about it frequently.
Agree with your statement regarding the use of the atomic bomb btw. This is one of the key issues with just war theory. It always assumes that action leads to a decrease in the total loss of life. In reality, one cannot definitively make that statement and know it to be truth.