That's just it... It is weird to YOU. I don't find it weird in the least. If that's who they are, I'll accept them. Just as I do you with your biases.
I wear a sweater vest every day. Many people find that weird. But it's just the outward expression of who I am. Should I stop because it makes you uncomfortable?
And yes... they are exactly the same things before you say differently.
sweater vests are an accepted part of society and office norm. Being confused on gender and wearing a dress and dropping a duece in the women’s bathroom is to me, less acceptable. Genders are fundamentally different. They always have been and they always will be. Just like species and race. I’ve pointed out you would not hire someone who said meow every other word, wore a collar and sipped milk off the floor if they were a good operations manager. Can you justify the difference in transgender and trans race, trans age and trans species?