I agree with you in principle but you are a lot more optimistic than me about the altruism of the pronoun stuff, which hopefully is just me being paranoid and you are right about the future of the republic.
Are you familiar with professor Jordan Peterson? He is really brilliant and interesting. Not a big political guy but more of a philosophy guy. His experience with the pronoun stuff shows that good intentions about being kind to your fellow man are easily subverted as a tool of punishment and control.
Interesting read and so is any interview with him.
https://www.google.com/amp/www.bbc.co.uk/news/amp/37875695