'We’ve got reservations all over the place': How Mike Boynton & Erik Pastrana flew up the coaching ladder together
Jacob Unruh
Oklahoman
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STILLWATER — Nine years ago,
Erik Pastrana had a lot on his mind.
What his new job as an assistant coach at Stephen F. Austin would be like. How far Nacogdoches, Texas, was from Florida. What the differences in recruiting rules are from the junior-college level to Division I.
The thought of where he stayed on recruiting trips was low priority. It never mattered as a junior-college assistant.
Until he learned otherwise.
Mike Boynton — also hired by Brad Underwood at Stephen F. Austin in 2013 — was Pastrana’s answer key. And his first mission was to make sure Pastrana knew the key to travel.
Marriott Rewards.
Boynton urged Pastrana to sign up quickly for the traveling treasure.
“I knew about Marriotts, but I didn’t fully understand,” Pastrana said.
But Boynton did.
“He was pretty green about a lot of this stuff when he got in,” Boynton said with a smile at the memory. “So, that's what I try to do. I feel like my time here on Earth, however long it is, is best spent helping as many people as I can.”
That was the beginning of a beautiful partnership between two coaches with one another — and the coaches with a hotel chain.
“Now me and him are Marriott experts,” Pastrana said. “We’ve got reservations all over the place.”
Their friendship was forever sealed that day.
Boynton and Pastrana vacation together and they talk often. They’re sounding boards for one another.
Spending five years together as coaches — at Stephen F. Austin and Oklahoma State — brought them closer on and off the court.
That’s what makes Saturday so difficult.
On a day Oklahoma State heads to Florida for the annual Big 12/SEC Challenge, the game has more meaning than just non-conference bragging rights. Boynton will be on one bench. Pastrana on the other.
Boynton, in his fifth year as OSU’s head coach, is tasked with beating his dear friend, now an assistant with the Gators.
“I hate playing against friends, because I always want my friends to have success and on Saturday I can't want him to win,” Boynton said. “But he's truly one of my best friends. We still talk pretty often, and so I'll be happy to see him.
“I won't be happy to coach against him.”
Joining forces at Stephen F. Austin
Boynton was trying to figure out what was next in his career. So was Pastrana.
That’s how they wound up at Stephen F. Austin together in 2013 and instantly connected.
Boynton, the young, experienced assistant, and Pastrana, the young, junior-college coach, were kindred spirits.
“We just found a bond that we had a passion for helping kids,” Boynton said.
“And then we had a lot of things in common. We care about people. We love helping guys develop. Player development has always been something we’ve both been passionate about.”
In three years, they helped Stephen F. Austin win 89 games. They also grew together.
Pastrana studied Boynton’s ability to scout opponents.
“Even back then he was super, super polished just as a coach, scouting, presenting, making it more than basketball,” Pastrana said. “He was really, really good, where I was like when my scout was up I was like, ‘Sh--, I gotta bring my A game.’
“Every scouting report was like a story that he was telling the guys. I’ve taken that with me, even to now.”
In 2016, the duo split.
Pastrana went to Florida International. Boynton joined Underwood at OSU. A year later, Boynton was promoted to head coach as Pastrana took over Daytona State College in Florida. A year later, Pastrana became an assistant at Florida Atlantic.
The two still remained close.
If Pastrana spotted a Florida-area recruit capable of playing in the Big 12, he alerted Boynton.
They talked at least once every two weeks on the phone. They often talked in a group text that included Patrick Schulte, OSU’s former video coordinator.
Pastrana sometimes reminded Boynton that he would be a valuable asset in Stillwater if needed. But Pastrana wanted it to be genuine, not because of the friendship.
After a tumultuous 2018-19 season that left the Cowboys with seven scholarship players, Boynton called Pastrana with a different tone in his voice.
“Is this dude going to offer me a job?” Pastrana thought.
There was a job waiting. It just wasn’t that simple.
Pastrana was happy with his life. Boca Raton, Florida, was just 25 minutes from Miami, where he grew up. FAU was improving, too.
But after some thought, it was time.
“Mike was probably the only person I would have left FAU for, and it was specifically because I felt like I could help him at that point,” Pastrana said.
“I wanted to help my dude.”
Pastrana believes Boynton needed a coach willing to be brutally honest. Boynton also knew the potential in his friend.
“He's going to be a head coach sooner than later,” Boynton said. “He's somebody that I think understands the work that it takes to become good and he's willing to do all the things. Most people want the opportunity to be on TV, and he wants to do the work and not necessarily look for the glamor in it. And because of that service mindset will serve well as he goes along in his career.”
Reuniting in Big 12/SEC Challenge
Pastrana’s phone lit up just moments after the Big 12/SEC announcement in June. OSU was headed to Florida.
Isaac Likekele had to FaceTime his former coach.
“I’m pulling for you,” OSU’s senior said, “but January 29 we’re coming.”
There was no reason to expect nothing less from a group of players Pastrana knows so well.
For two seasons, Pastrana helped shape the Cowboys. In turn, they molded him. He was a key assistant and the recruiting coordinator.
As the Cowboys improved each season, he helped stabilize the program.
Pastrana was instrumental in recruiting Matthew-Alexander Moncrieffe. He played a part in landing
Cade Cunningham, too. Pastrana also recruited and coached Bryce Williams at Daytona State.
“He took a lot of notes and learned how to build a winner and what it takes to have success in this league,” Boynton said. “And so he was a great asset to me, not only from a recruiting standpoint, but from a coaching standpoint, development, playing style, he had great ideas in terms of schematics.”
With the roster stabilized, it made leaving in the offseason easier when Florida coach Mike White called.
“I felt comfortable walking away towards a place like Florida where I can help this program as well and be closer to family,” Pastrana said. “I think if Mike (Boynton) hadn’t been in a really stable place with a great roster and a great future ahead, it would have been a lot harder for me to leave.”
That doesn’t make this weekend any easier, though.
Pastrana is in charge of the scouting report for the Cowboys. He’s watched nearly every game with a rooting interest this season anyway, so it’s natural he developed the plan.
But he once built up the players on OSU’s roster and tried to fix their faults. Now, he’s trying to get the upper hand.
“Now, you almost kinda feel bad, like you’re trying to expose a weakness,” he said Wednesday from his hotel in Knoxville, Tennessee, ahead of the Gators’ 78-71 loss to Tennessee.
“It’s definitely different for sure. You gotta find the ways you can take advantage. I know Mike’s going to do the same thing.”
Friendship is important. So are wins.
Both will be true Saturday.
“I love the dude,” Boynton said. “It's one of those more difficult moments you go through, because, like I said, somebody's gotta lose and certainly don't want to be you, but you don't want your friends to not have success either.”