I think your dead on right! In which I can actually understand....just sucks for the current wrestlers and fans! For Howe and Brewer to leave tells you something. Howe I can understand. The real kicker that stayed somewhat silent is that Lightner was all but out the door. How bad does it have to be with Cody for all 3 wanting to leave.
Yeah, Howe's a transplant. I appreciate his time here, and wish him well. But he's a Wisconsin kid at heart.
Brewer leaving hurts Cody the most. You have your own NCAA National Champion who wants to be here with you, but he chooses a different, more elite school because you snub him. I wonder what the timeline was on when he accepted and Howe left? If Cody snubbed Brewer because he thought Howe was staying at OU, I can see that. Howe is arguably a better catch on your staff. A 4x All-American like Brewer, Howe was a 3x finalist, finishing 3rd at his very worst. 1,2,2,3 trumps 1,3,7,8, success-wise. And Howe's doing very well in freestyle. He's just at an extremely tough weight. I have no idea about his coaching ability, but Matt Reed looked much improved from last year, and Clark Glass seemed to improve as well (although I think he's tapped out, potentially). I'll give him that one.
Lightner was all but out the door in order to be a Head Coach. I'm not sure it's fair to lump him in with the "I'm unhappy with Cody" crowd. A lot of assistants would leave at a chance to lead their own program.
It will be interesting to see who OU's staff will be next year. Is Maple disgruntled, or is he happy to stay with Cody?