Been to to Italy several times, still probably my favorite country. We would seriously consider to moving there in a few special places.
First, love the people. They are casual, fun loving, and strangely the young folks don't binge drink...they learn to respect wine as children and there's no taboo draw.
Second, it's at times a dirty and politically corrupt country. And yet I love it, the people, it's history, art, culture, people. Part of the charm.
Favorites:
- lake Como is heaven on earth. Spectacular. Tremezza isn't a great spot but there are many others. Check out Villa Carlotta and spend an afternoon/evening in Bellagio. Soak heaven in.
- Florence is stunning but it's changed a lot in the last 20 years and has lost a bit of its local charm IMO. Gone are the local hotels and restaurants, replace by Gucci and Armani. Still, the Ponte Vecchio is one for the ages, and the Uffizi Gallery may be the next best museum in the world behind le Louvre. We were in Florence when we realized our first child was on the way. Find some restaurants where the locals eat! Get away from the corporate stuff. Find a rooftop restaurant overlooking the Arno if you can.
- Venice is a gem and we love it, if for no other reason than the novelty of a historic city sans cars. The glass is world class and some of the blowing demonstrations are amazing. We were in Venice when Italy won the World Cup in 2006, good memories.
- Rome is THE eternal city, but it's not always an easy place to visit. Can be crowded and hot. Imperial Forum and the Vatican Museums are must sees. Watch for pick pockets at the train stations and touristy areas like the Spanish Steps and Trevi Fountain. Soak up the history (Vatican museum is unbelievable) and then get out of there to enjoy the best of Italy.
- Pompeii is amazing, another must see if you're in the area. A city frozen in time, half of what we know about the Roman Empire comes from that town.
- Amalfi coast is amazing, try the limoncello and get to Positano for a day or two if you can. Stunning beauty. Take the ferry from Positano back to Sorrento for great views. Visit the isle of Capri if you get the itch.
- Assisi in Umbria (home of St Francis) is a beautiful hilltop village with a great castle and beautiful countryside full of olive groves. Of course visit the church. Easier to relax and soak Italy in amongst places like these.
- Milan is a very western fashion and business hub, suggest hitting Da Vinci's Last Supper (get reservations EARLY), the famous cathedral, then move on to lake Como or Bologna or Venice.
Food and wine are integral to their culture. And espresso. Find time to relax, get away from the tourists, and enjoy everything Italy has to offer. If you have any interest, I strongly suggest taking some history and/or art classes to put things into better perspective. If nothing else, just find time to slow down and take things in. Italians enjoy life.