There, we can agree on something. Marcotte is hyperbolic and annoying.
So you'll find this equally as annoying as I do...
“Being able to stockpile weapons and have ever bigger and scarier-looking guns is straightforward and undeniable overcompensation insecure men trying to prove what manly men they are,” writes Marcotte. “This isn’t a discussion being held on the plane of rationality, but a psychological drama about these men’s fears of emasculation.”
I don't have any issue with college courses teaching males about "emphasis on responsibility, providing, and leadership." Great idea, but we've always had those. What is at issue is the label of "toxic masculinity" and the theories and thoughts that created it.
What is quoted above is exactly what is being reverberated on college campuses. Hell, one of the board liberals posts this shit all of the time. Acting "male," although biologically normal, seems to have become a hot issue and likely not one that will exhibit any tolerance to folks with opposing opinions as has happened at least a couple of times before on similar subject matter.
Sometimes these horrific male behaviors (is rape commonly taught at home?) are just the result of biology and opportunity. Give a horny college aged male from a great home with great parents and from a great school a few brews (or not in some cases) and what he sees as an opportunity to sink his man parts into the appropriate biological receptacles (and hell, lots of other weird shit too) of a female that can't physically say no (she was into me!), and sometimes you'll see the primitive male brain take over and
do shit he knows is wrong. Additional leadership training likely isn't going to help that poor testosterone fueled dude. A thoroughly severe punishment might make the next horny guy think twice though.
Maybe I'm just not getting or understanding the desired end result of the solutions to this new fangled toxic masculinity problem.
The corner you have backed yourself into is that behavior is in no way shape or form influenced by cultural expectations. I have seen you argue the exact opposite when talking about inner city crime.
Not really, or at least that isn't what I've meant to convey. We both know nature and nurture play a role.
It is interesting though. When I have brought up gang culture as a substantial driver of gang violence and inner city crime, a liberal fella on here went ape shit. It's about opportunities is what I was told. I've since modified my belief system to understand that suggesting gang culture (and a genre of music that glorifies it) contributes significantly to gang violence is racist and is not based on anything that can be considered factual. I'm trainable if nothing else.