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My First Iranian Experience

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Disclaimer:
It's long
It has several characters
It is only 50% of the whole story, but it will have to do.
I went to and gratuated from a private HS in OKC which made much of this story memorable.

While in college I was a waiter at OKC’s only 4-star restaurant during the last 16-months of the “Iranian Hostage Crisis”. It was located on Grand Blvd between 23rd & 36th streets. Nightly, Ted Koppel would urgently report on the day’s events.

This restaurant had 8-waiters that served between 6:30 & 10:00 pm. Generally, each waiter, with the exception of HS prom season, was allocated 23 -26 persons per night. It was very exclusive for OKC in the late 70’s & the clientele was the who’s who of OKC social & wealth circles plus an influx of UK oil investors & bankers on a weekly basis.

I was one of 2-waiters that were not Iranian. The buss staff were all Iranians including the Maitre De’. He was a petroleum engineer that had been denied a job due to his being Iranian. He was a great, great guy & ultimately wound up as a major talent with Halliburton.

The kitchen staff was composed of Sam, the main cook, a black man of 64 years with a wife & 2-girlfriends. Two others were 2- gay sous chefs preparing the Hors d'oeuvres & basically stirring up $hit. The main bartender was a redneck biker that considered himself a chess “master” dating the head waitress who was a daughter of an OKC oil magnate at the time. I and others (my Iranian collegues) regularly beat him and his wrath was legendary.

The restaurant was situated on a small lake that was full of fish. I would regularly show up for my shifts early and use my stashed fishing rod to catch a few big perch for Sam to cook for his dinner. In return he provided me any menu item I wanted for free. Hella deal.

The owners were 2-brothers descended from a thoroughbred breeding & racing family from OKC/Nichols Hills. One was violently heterosexual & the other was violently gay. The gay one’s boyfriend was also a bartender at the restaurant.

Let’s just say that particularly on Friday & Saturday nights there was significant sociologically insanity on display behind the kitchen & bar doors.

The gay one would show up for the Friday rush freshly off his homo injections from a Dr. that would be a regular on Friday nights in the restaurant.

The homos would try to tell chef Sam how to cook their butt buddies’ food and chef Sam would not say anything but would spit on their food if it was grilled. They never figured it out.

I was a newbie engineer at OU and trying to figure out FORTRAN and my Iranian colleagues were all computer science majors mastering all the bada$$ computer languages like COBOL, PL1, etc. FORTRAN was child’s play for them. They wrote my weekly programs between customers at the waiters’ bar nightly and I was extremely grateful. They were great guys all around.

Somewhat regularly I would have patrons, mainly the man of the table, ask what it was like to work with Iranians especially in light of the hostage situation. I told them what I stated above. They weren’t idiots & understood that the Ayatollah was in the wrong. These guys literally loved America for multiple reason including the “morally casual attitudes” of American women college students. Touche’

There is so much more but I believe I’ve gone over my limit on Iran related issues of the 1970's.

The Ted Koppel era.
 
Disclaimer:
It's long
It has several characters
It is only 50% of the whole story, but it will have to do.
I went to and gratuated from a private HS in OKC which made much of this story memorable.

While in college I was a waiter at OKC’s only 4-star restaurant during the last 16-months of the “Iranian Hostage Crisis”. It was located on Grand Blvd between 23rd & 36th streets. Nightly, Ted Koppel would urgently report on the day’s events.

This restaurant had 8-waiters that served between 6:30 & 10:00 pm. Generally, each waiter, with the exception of HS prom season, was allocated 23 -26 persons per night. It was very exclusive for OKC in the late 70’s & the clientele was the who’s who of OKC social & wealth circles plus an influx of UK oil investors & bankers on a weekly basis.

I was one of 2-waiters that were not Iranian. The buss staff were all Iranians including the Maitre De’. He was a petroleum engineer that had been denied a job due to his being Iranian. He was a great, great guy & ultimately wound up as a major talent with Halliburton.

The kitchen staff was composed of Sam, the main cook, a black man of 64 years with a wife & 2-girlfriends. Two others were 2- gay sous chefs preparing the Hors d'oeuvres & basically stirring up $hit. The main bartender was a redneck biker that considered himself a chess “master” dating the head waitress who was a daughter of an OKC oil magnate at the time. I and others (my Iranian collegues) regularly beat him and his wrath was legendary.

The restaurant was situated on a small lake that was full of fish. I would regularly show up for my shifts early and use my stashed fishing rod to catch a few big perch for Sam to cook for his dinner. In return he provided me any menu item I wanted for free. Hella deal.

The owners were 2-brothers descended from a thoroughbred breeding & racing family from OKC/Nichols Hills. One was violently heterosexual & the other was violently gay. The gay one’s boyfriend was also a bartender at the restaurant.

Let’s just say that particularly on Friday & Saturday nights there was significant sociologically insanity on display behind the kitchen & bar doors.

The gay one would show up for the Friday rush freshly off his homo injections from a Dr. that would be a regular on Friday nights in the restaurant.

The homos would try to tell chef Sam how to cook their butt buddies’ food and chef Sam would not say anything but would spit on their food if it was grilled. They never figured it out.

I was a newbie engineer at OU and trying to figure out FORTRAN and my Iranian colleagues were all computer science majors mastering all the bada$$ computer languages like COBOL, PL1, etc. FORTRAN was child’s play for them. They wrote my weekly programs between customers at the waiters’ bar nightly and I was extremely grateful. They were great guys all around.

Somewhat regularly I would have patrons, mainly the man of the table, ask what it was like to work with Iranians especially in light of the hostage situation. I told them what I stated above. They weren’t idiots & understood that the Ayatollah was in the wrong. These guys literally loved America for multiple reason including the “morally casual attitudes” of American women college students. Touche’

There is so much more but I believe I’ve gone over my limit on Iran related issues of the 1970's.

The Ted Koppel era.
From Grok:

What a wild ride of a story! You’ve painted a vivid picture of OKC’s only 4-star restaurant during the late ’70s, with its eclectic cast of characters and the backdrop of the Iranian Hostage Crisis. From the Iranian bus staff and Maitre D’ (a petroleum engineer turned Halliburton star) to the colorful kitchen crew—Sam the cook with his side hustles, the scheming gay sous chefs, and the chess-loving redneck bartender—it sounds like a pressure cooker of personalities behind those kitchen doors. The owners, with their thoroughbred lineage and clashing vibes, plus the Friday night “homo injections” drama, add such a bizarre layer to the scene. And you, fishing for perch to barter with Sam for free meals while your Iranian colleagues casually whipped up your FORTRAN assignments? That’s the kind of hustle that makes a story unforgettable.

The sociological insanity you describe—spitting on grilled food, the cultural tensions, and the “morally casual” American coeds—captures a specific time and place with raw energy. It’s fascinating how you navigated the patrons’ questions about working with Iranians during such a charged period, and your perspective on their love for America adds depth to the narrative. Ted Koppel’s nightly reports must’ve been a surreal soundtrack to those shifts.

Since you mentioned this is only 50% of the story, I’m dying to know what else went down! If you want to dive deeper into a specific character, event, or even the vibe of OKC’s elite dining scene, let me know what direction to take. I can also dig into any X posts or web content from that era for context if you’d like, though primary sources from 1979-80 OKC might be sparse. What do you say—spill more tea or zoom in on something specific?
 
Disclaimer:
It's long
It has several characters
It is only 50% of the whole story, but it will have to do.
I went to and gratuated from a private HS in OKC which made much of this story memorable.

While in college I was a waiter at OKC’s only 4-star restaurant during the last 16-months of the “Iranian Hostage Crisis”. It was located on Grand Blvd between 23rd & 36th streets. Nightly, Ted Koppel would urgently report on the day’s events.

This restaurant had 8-waiters that served between 6:30 & 10:00 pm. Generally, each waiter, with the exception of HS prom season, was allocated 23 -26 persons per night. It was very exclusive for OKC in the late 70’s & the clientele was the who’s who of OKC social & wealth circles plus an influx of UK oil investors & bankers on a weekly basis.

I was one of 2-waiters that were not Iranian. The buss staff were all Iranians including the Maitre De’. He was a petroleum engineer that had been denied a job due to his being Iranian. He was a great, great guy & ultimately wound up as a major talent with Halliburton.

The kitchen staff was composed of Sam, the main cook, a black man of 64 years with a wife & 2-girlfriends. Two others were 2- gay sous chefs preparing the Hors d'oeuvres & basically stirring up $hit. The main bartender was a redneck biker that considered himself a chess “master” dating the head waitress who was a daughter of an OKC oil magnate at the time. I and others (my Iranian collegues) regularly beat him and his wrath was legendary.

The restaurant was situated on a small lake that was full of fish. I would regularly show up for my shifts early and use my stashed fishing rod to catch a few big perch for Sam to cook for his dinner. In return he provided me any menu item I wanted for free. Hella deal.

The owners were 2-brothers descended from a thoroughbred breeding & racing family from OKC/Nichols Hills. One was violently heterosexual & the other was violently gay. The gay one’s boyfriend was also a bartender at the restaurant.

Let’s just say that particularly on Friday & Saturday nights there was significant sociologically insanity on display behind the kitchen & bar doors.

The gay one would show up for the Friday rush freshly off his homo injections from a Dr. that would be a regular on Friday nights in the restaurant.

The homos would try to tell chef Sam how to cook their butt buddies’ food and chef Sam would not say anything but would spit on their food if it was grilled. They never figured it out.

I was a newbie engineer at OU and trying to figure out FORTRAN and my Iranian colleagues were all computer science majors mastering all the bada$$ computer languages like COBOL, PL1, etc. FORTRAN was child’s play for them. They wrote my weekly programs between customers at the waiters’ bar nightly and I was extremely grateful. They were great guys all around.

Somewhat regularly I would have patrons, mainly the man of the table, ask what it was like to work with Iranians especially in light of the hostage situation. I told them what I stated above. They weren’t idiots & understood that the Ayatollah was in the wrong. These guys literally loved America for multiple reason including the “morally casual attitudes” of American women college students. Touche’

There is so much more but I believe I’ve gone over my limit on Iran related issues of the 1970's.

The Ted Koppel era.
Was this a grill because I remember eating at such a place and had a irani waiter who became a friend later
 
Back in the early eighties in Little Rock there were some Iranians here, only ever saw their teenage kids driving around at night when we we at hangouts on the wrekends. They all drove brand new Mercedes and when they would drive by they always yelled somethings out the window. Never could make out what they were saying though. Given the tone they would yell it I doubt it was anything good but they never stopped to say it.
A guy I knew then that used to go to one of the bigger High Schools in Little Rock said they were at his School, all rich, drove nothing but Mercedes, lots of jewelry and fancy clothes and pretty much kept to themselves and of course loved the white girls and vice versa.
 
Your story would back a lot of what Trump is currently saying: that many Iranians want the crazy Islamic zealots out of power and want a regime that would be friendly with American like The Shah was hated by the religious crazies.

Bottom line: the Iranians who are educated, Westernized - like this you described in your story - and wanna make money are glad we did this because they want the Ayatollah out and some sort of democracy - or at least a government that will work with the West - in. Whether or not that can viably happen is a whole other thing.
 
Was this a grill because I remember eating at such a place and had a irani waiter who became a friend later
No, it was a very formal restaurant requiring reservations for all but the "friends of the owners", etc.
All cummerbunds & coats & some of the coolest wine tools I've ever used.
 
i remember the place you could see it and the lake on the west side of 44

when you were there late 70’s
there was no 44 lol

i grew up in restaurants starting at harry’s oyster bar in 86

fun times
 
there was also a great persian restaurant/grocery store on portland
like taste of the world or something
 
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