No, it is very relevant to the question being asked and the topic being discussed.
You and I agree on a woman's right to choose. So why in the world are you wasting your time challenging/debating me when we agree? Why aren't you challenging those on this board who support that which you claim to disagree with?
Hence the point of a middle ground.
Many (a strong majority actually), including YOU, believe that a woman has a right to choose. Yes, others disagree and want abortions completely outlawed. So find the middle ground! The middle ground isn't dismissing those who believe it is a right (such as yourself) in favor of giving what those who don't believe it is a right exactly what they want.
btw, don't kid yourself. The faux desire to return this issue to the states isn't going to end there for the anti-abortion crowd. Next, they will pass state laws to stop people from leaving their states to go to other states to obtain abortions. And they will eventually push for a nationwide abortion ban on all abortions.