I really did not begin noticing this until about 12-years ago with some of my male married friends. They were one generation forward removed from me as I am a Boomer. My best count is that there were 6-guys that fell into almost exactly into some of the following situations.
Source: ‘Godlike Productions’
Men Are Not Afraid Of Marriage—They’re Afraid Of What Women Have Become
Let’s kill the fairy tale:
Men aren’t scared of commitment.
They’re scared of who they’re being asked to commit to.
Because once upon a time?
Marriage was a union.
Today?
It’s a one-sided hostage negotiation—with state-backed ransom fees.
Let’s talk about the real fear:
—
1. He's Not Scared Of Forever—He's Scared Of Filing For Bankruptcy
He’s seen his brothers lose half their assets.
Lose their kids.
Lose their peace.
All because one day she “wasn’t happy anymore.”
Love didn’t end.
Loyalty did.
And loyalty today is as rare as a 5-star Yelp review from a Karen.
—
2. He's Not Scared Of Love—He's Scared Of Courtrooms
One false allegation.
One "I felt unsafe" whisper.
One TikTok vent session.
And it’s over.
No trial. No facts. Just vibes—and a court date.
You think he’s paranoid?
He’s trauma-informed.
—
3. He's Not Avoiding Vows—He's Avoiding Weapons
Today’s woman comes equipped with:
Child support lawyers
Domestic violence hotlines
False allegation toolkits
No-fault divorce get-out-jail-free cards
He’s not avoiding marriage.
He’s avoiding legal suicide.
—
4. He's Not Afraid Of Providing—He's Tired Of Being Used
He’s seen it:
The man who paid all the bills… only to be called “bare minimum.”
The man who built a house… only to be kicked out of it during custody hearings.
The man who invested in a family… and got treated like an expired utility bill.
You think he fears responsibility?
No.
He fears being disposable.
—
5. He's Not Dodging Partnership—He's Dodging Parasites
She shows up:
With a child from another man.
With $87k in student loans.
With emotional damage labeled “healing era.”
And expects him to “man up.”
Meanwhile, she won’t even delete her OnlyFans subscription or stop flirting with gym trainers.
You call that partnership?
He calls that a suicide pact.
—
6. He’s Not Rejecting Femininity—He’s Starved For It
The modern woman thinks being loud, rude, combative, and “independent” makes her attractive.
Meanwhile, he’s dying for:
Softness
Loyalty
Grace
Peace
But peace has been rebranded as weakness.
Femininity has been buried under Instagram quotes and therapy jargon.
—
7. He’s Not Scared Of Building—He’s Scared Of Building Alone
He’ll put the bricks.
She’ll put the demands.
He'll carry the burdens.
She'll carry the attitude.
He’s done building empires just to sleep with enemies.
He’s not commitment-phobic.
He’s survival-smart.
—
Final Word:
Men aren’t afraid of marriage.
They’re afraid of marrying a woman who sees it as:
A payday.
A power play.
A performative act for social media likes.
You think he’s scared?
No.
He’s just smart enough to know…
It’s not about whether he loves her.
It’s about whether she’ll still love him when life stops being Instagrammable.
And if you think that’s fear?
Keep clapping at your bestie’s third divorce party.
The floor is open.
Let the triggered feminists and red-pilled warriors collide.
– ELONAIRES | Magnus Media
Source: ‘Godlike Productions’
Men Are Not Afraid Of Marriage—They’re Afraid Of What Women Have Become
Let’s kill the fairy tale:
Men aren’t scared of commitment.
They’re scared of who they’re being asked to commit to.
Because once upon a time?
Marriage was a union.
Today?
It’s a one-sided hostage negotiation—with state-backed ransom fees.
Let’s talk about the real fear:
—
1. He's Not Scared Of Forever—He's Scared Of Filing For Bankruptcy
He’s seen his brothers lose half their assets.
Lose their kids.
Lose their peace.
All because one day she “wasn’t happy anymore.”
Love didn’t end.
Loyalty did.
And loyalty today is as rare as a 5-star Yelp review from a Karen.
—
2. He's Not Scared Of Love—He's Scared Of Courtrooms
One false allegation.
One "I felt unsafe" whisper.
One TikTok vent session.
And it’s over.
No trial. No facts. Just vibes—and a court date.
You think he’s paranoid?
He’s trauma-informed.
—
3. He's Not Avoiding Vows—He's Avoiding Weapons
Today’s woman comes equipped with:
Child support lawyers
Domestic violence hotlines
False allegation toolkits
No-fault divorce get-out-jail-free cards
He’s not avoiding marriage.
He’s avoiding legal suicide.
—
4. He's Not Afraid Of Providing—He's Tired Of Being Used
He’s seen it:
The man who paid all the bills… only to be called “bare minimum.”
The man who built a house… only to be kicked out of it during custody hearings.
The man who invested in a family… and got treated like an expired utility bill.
You think he fears responsibility?
No.
He fears being disposable.
—
5. He's Not Dodging Partnership—He's Dodging Parasites
She shows up:
With a child from another man.
With $87k in student loans.
With emotional damage labeled “healing era.”
And expects him to “man up.”
Meanwhile, she won’t even delete her OnlyFans subscription or stop flirting with gym trainers.
You call that partnership?
He calls that a suicide pact.
—
6. He’s Not Rejecting Femininity—He’s Starved For It
The modern woman thinks being loud, rude, combative, and “independent” makes her attractive.
Meanwhile, he’s dying for:
Softness
Loyalty
Grace
Peace
But peace has been rebranded as weakness.
Femininity has been buried under Instagram quotes and therapy jargon.
—
7. He’s Not Scared Of Building—He’s Scared Of Building Alone
He’ll put the bricks.
She’ll put the demands.
He'll carry the burdens.
She'll carry the attitude.
He’s done building empires just to sleep with enemies.
He’s not commitment-phobic.
He’s survival-smart.
—
Final Word:
Men aren’t afraid of marriage.
They’re afraid of marrying a woman who sees it as:
A payday.
A power play.
A performative act for social media likes.
You think he’s scared?
No.
He’s just smart enough to know…
It’s not about whether he loves her.
It’s about whether she’ll still love him when life stops being Instagrammable.
And if you think that’s fear?
Keep clapping at your bestie’s third divorce party.
The floor is open.
Let the triggered feminists and red-pilled warriors collide.
– ELONAIRES | Magnus Media
