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A good man on his way out the door...

davidallen

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My father in law, a life long Gooner fan but none the less a good man, suffered a massive stroke this past week and is not likely to survive the coming week. I post this in tribute to a life well-lived, to doing the right thing even when it is hard and in recognition of someone who was not only my father in law but a friend as well.

A couple of tequilas in tonight, but have to take a moment to thank Bob for raising a couple of incredible, strong, and smart women.

When the oil bust of the '80s hit - Bob opted to stick with the purchase agreement for the small town jewelry store he bought from his in-laws rather than try and renegotiate the contract and threaten their retirement. Smart? Not all. Compassionate and the mark of a man determined to keep his word? Hell yes.

We were fortunate enough to have him spend time with us in August - two weeks my kids, my wife and I will treasure.

@pordrumr, @jpa5635, @LouKY Poke - you know the man I speak of. The world will be a lesser place with his passing. I can only hope for a peaceful journey for a man I respect and love this much.
 
What a nice tribute, David. It's harder and harder at our age. People who have meant the world to us are beginning to feel the weight of time. Tremendous that you have so many great memories, and it looks like he'll leave a lasting legacy.

Prayers for you family.
 
Sorry you are having to go through a tough time. I can assure you, while sad, suffering the after effects of a sever stroke is horrible. My mom lasted 1 1/2 years after her massive stroke. Celebrate his life and cherish the memories.
 
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Very true Cordellhall - we have been down that road before and it is a terrible way to go. Bob passed Saturday morning. We will be having a memorial in Cushing next Sunday.
 
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I think I can actually say it now... at least Bob didn't have to see that finish last week. Though I know he would have loved to join me for the Pitt game this week.
 
Very nice tribute to your FIL, David. Weird how chance (or God, whatever your belief) puts people in your life. My (ex)FIL passed a month ago. I divorced his daughter 14 years ago but he and I remained more than friends. Over the past 10 years, my son has spent more time with him than he did with his mother...and my boy is better off because of it.
He became my mentor when I went to work for him in 1994. Walked me through becoming a good businessman as a mid 20's know nothing punk. I kinda haistily forced him to sell me the Missouri/Kansas portion of his territory in 97...and took his best asset at the time with me (his psycho daughter) to KC. He never held a grudge. Never would not take my call if I had a serious issue biz wise.
FF to divorce, he always kept an open mind. He knew all the players in the game. I didn't talk to him as much for a year-ish, but soon thereafter picked up where we left off.
Next to my father, John had the most influence on me, both as a man and how to treat customers. I miss him very much...even though he was also a lifelong OU fan/grad.
Don't mean to hijack your thread, David. Also, I apologize for getting so wordy...I guess I was looking for an outlet.
RIP JPL
 
My father in law, a life long Gooner fan but none the less a good man, suffered a massive stroke this past week and is not likely to survive the coming week. I post this in tribute to a life well-lived, to doing the right thing even when it is hard and in recognition of someone who was not only my father in law but a friend as well.

A couple of tequilas in tonight, but have to take a moment to thank Bob for raising a couple of incredible, strong, and smart women.

When the oil bust of the '80s hit - Bob opted to stick with the purchase agreement for the small town jewelry store he bought from his in-laws rather than try and renegotiate the contract and threaten their retirement. Smart? Not all. Compassionate and the mark of a man determined to keep his word? Hell yes.

We were fortunate enough to have him spend time with us in August - two weeks my kids, my wife and I will treasure.

@pordrumr, @jpa5635, @LouKY Poke - you know the man I speak of. The world will be a lesser place with his passing. I can only hope for a peaceful journey for a man I respect and love this much.
Sorry for your loss.
 
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Sorry for your loss David I will be keeping you and your family in my thoughts this week.
 
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My father in law, a life long Gooner fan but none the less a good man, suffered a massive stroke this past week and is not likely to survive the coming week. I post this in tribute to a life well-lived, to doing the right thing even when it is hard and in recognition of someone who was not only my father in law but a friend as well.

A couple of tequilas in tonight, but have to take a moment to thank Bob for raising a couple of incredible, strong, and smart women.

When the oil bust of the '80s hit - Bob opted to stick with the purchase agreement for the small town jewelry store he bought from his in-laws rather than try and renegotiate the contract and threaten their retirement. Smart? Not all. Compassionate and the mark of a man determined to keep his word? Hell yes.

We were fortunate enough to have him spend time with us in August - two weeks my kids, my wife and I will treasure.

@pordrumr, @jpa5635, @LouKY Poke - you know the man I speak of. The world will be a lesser place with his passing. I can only hope for a peaceful journey for a man I respect and love this much.

Just now seeing this post. Bob was one of the good ones. Sorry again for your loss.
 
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